How To Get Your Best Night’s Sleep
In our culture, sleep often gets pushed aside. Whether it’s working late, binge-watching shows, staying out with friends, or catching up on chores, many of us sacrifice rest for productivity or entertainment. Pulling an all-nighter is even glamorized in some work and school settings. Some people joke that prioritizing sleep is “lazy.” But the truth is, lack of sleep is threat to our health.
According to the Centers for Disease Control, one in three adults doesn’t get the recommended seven hours of sleep per night. And yet, restorative sleep is essential to every aspect of health.
During deep sleep, the body does remarkable repair work:
- Cerebrospinal fluid clears waste from the brain
- Glucose metabolism increases in the brain, strengthening memories
- Tissues are repaired and cells regenerate
- The liver metabolizes and detoxifies
- Hormones, including human growth hormone, are secreted
When sleep is shortchanged, the risks add up. Weight gain, insulin resistance, metabolic syndrome, Type 2 diabetes, heart disease, stroke, and even Alzheimer’s disease have all been linked to inadequate sleep.
The good news? There’s a lot you can do to set yourself up for a better night’s rest. It starts with understanding your body’s natural rhythms and then creating habits that work with them instead of against them.
Your Body’s Internal Clock
Before we jump into the “how,” it’s important to understand the “why.” Sleep doesn’t just happen randomly. Your body is guided by an internal timekeeper called the circadian rhythm. This 24-hour cycle regulates not only your sleep and wake cycles, but also your hormones, digestion, metabolism, and immune function. When your rhythms are aligned, you feel alert during the day and sleepy at night. When they’re out of sync, sleep becomes a struggle.
Our ancestors were perfectly in step with these rhythms, rising with the sun and winding down with the sunset. Today, however, we spend most of our time indoors, exposed to artificial light, screens, and irregular schedules. This creates conflict between the way our bodies are wired and the way we live. This is one of the main reasons so many people struggle with sleep today.
In a healthy circadian cycle:
- Morning light exposure boosts cortisol, your “awake and alert” hormone.
- Evening darkness allows cortisol to fall and melatonin, your sleep hormone, to rise.
- This rhythm of high cortisol by day and high melatonin at night is what sets you up for deep, restorative sleep.
What Disrupts Sleep?
If you’re tossing and turning at night, it’s often because modern habits are throwing your circadian rhythms out of balance. Even small daily choices can add up, leaving your body confused about when it should be alert and when it should be winding down.
Common sleep disruptors include:
- Spending too little time in natural daylight
- Napping too long (more than 90 minutes)
- Shift work or irregular sleep schedules
- Skipping meals or eating erratically, which spikes cortisol
- Lack of movement or daily exercise
- Blue light exposure from phones, tablets, and TVs in the evening
- Caffeine or alcohol too close to bedtime
- Stress—whether mental, emotional, physical, or biochemical
- Interruptions during the night (pets, kids, noise, or light)
Each of these can interfere with your body’s ability to follow its natural rhythm. The more of them you can identify and shift, the easier it will be to get the sleep your body craves.
Building Better Sleep Hygiene
The phrase “sleep hygiene” simply refers to the habits and environment that set the stage for restful sleep. These habits create the conditions that allow your body to do what it already knows how to do. Good sleep hygiene actually starts in the morning and continues throughout the day. What you do while you’re awake makes a huge difference when it’s time to close your eyes.
Daytime Habits for Better Sleep
Your daytime routine is more powerful than you may think when it comes to sleep quality. By aligning with your natural circadian rhythm, you can build a foundation for deep rest at night.
- Get outside in the morning. A 20–30 minute walk or time in natural light soon after waking resets your internal clock for the day.
- Aim for regularity. Go to bed and wake up at the same time every day—even on weekends. Consistency helps your body predict when to feel sleepy.
- Move daily. Whether vigorous or gentle, exercise helps regulate hormones, relieve tension, and improve sleep quality.
- Eat a balanced dinner. Include protein, healthy fats, and complex carbs (like sweet potatoes or other starchy veggies) to stabilize blood sugar overnight. Finish eating 3–4 hours before bed unless you need a small balanced snack.
- Limit caffeine after noon. Everyone metabolizes caffeine differently, but as a rule of thumb, cut it off by midday.
- Avoid alcohol in the evening. It may make you sleepy at first, but it disrupts deeper sleep cycles later.
- Keep naps short. If you nap, keep it under 90 minutes so it doesn’t interfere with nighttime rest.
Evening Wind-Down Rituals
The last few hours before bedtime are critical for telling your body it’s time to shift gears. The goal is to gradually move from stimulation to relaxation.
- Dim the lights. Begin lowering lights 1–2 hours before bed to signal melatonin production. Red-light bulbs or amber glasses can help mimic sunset lighting.
- Step away from screens. Ideally, turn them off two hours before bed. If that’s not possible, use blue-light filters or glasses.
- Stop drinking liquids by 8 p.m. to reduce nighttime bathroom trips.
- Choose calming activities. Reading, journaling, meditation, stretching, listening to soft music, taking a bath, or diffusing calming essential oils can signal your body that it’s time for sleep.
- Avoid overstimulation. Save the scary movies or intense work projects for daytime.
When practiced consistently, your wind-down routine becomes a powerful cue for your mind and body that sleep is coming.
Creating a Sleep-Friendly Bedroom
Finally, don’t underestimate your sleep environment. Your bedroom should be a sanctuary designed specifically for rest. Too often, bedrooms are cluttered, noisy, or full of distractions that interfere with sleep. A few small adjustments can make a world of difference.
- Keep it dark. Use blackout curtains, cover electronics, or wear a sleep mask. Even small light exposures can disrupt melatonin.
- Keep it cool. The ideal sleep temperature is between 60–67°F.
- Control noise. Experiment with white noise or keep the room quiet—choose what works best for you.
- Remove distractions. Keep pets, phones, and other potential disturbances away from your sleep zone.
By protecting your sleep environment, you give your body the best chance to move smoothly through the stages of deep, restorative rest.
Foods and Nutrients That Support Sleep
Alongside good routines and a restful environment, what you eat can also play a role in how well you sleep. Certain foods and nutrients naturally support the production of calming neurotransmitters and hormones that prepare the body for rest. Choosing these in the evening—or making them a regular part of your diet—can gently nudge your body toward better sleep.
- Magnesium-rich foods. Magnesium is known as the “relaxation mineral” because it helps muscles release tension and supports the nervous system. Good sources include leafy greens, nuts, seeds, legumes, and dark chocolate (in moderation). Some people also find magnesium glycinate or citrate supplements helpful for sleep.
- Tryptophan-containing foods. Tryptophan is an amino acid that the body converts into serotonin and then melatonin. You’ll find it in turkey, chicken, eggs, pumpkin seeds, and dairy products. Pairing tryptophan-rich foods with complex carbohydrates (like sweet potatoes or brown rice) helps increase its availability to the brain.
- Herbal teas. Chamomile, lemon balm, and passionflower teas are time-honored sleep remedies. Sipping one in the evening can calm the nervous system and become a soothing part of a bedtime ritual.
- Foods high in melatonin. Some foods naturally contain melatonin, including tart cherries, grapes, walnuts, and tomatoes. Tart cherry juice in particular has been studied for its ability to improve sleep quality.
- Balanced evening meals. A dinner that includes protein, healthy fats, and complex carbs keeps blood sugar steady overnight. Blood sugar dips are a common cause of 3:00 a.m. wake-ups.
Supplements can also play a role for those who need extra support, but they should be used thoughtfully:
- Melatonin. Short-term use of melatonin can help reset sleep cycles, especially after travel or shift changes. It’s generally recommended in small doses (0.5–3 mg), as too much can actually be disruptive.
- Magnesium. If diet alone doesn’t provide enough, supplementation may ease muscle tension and promote relaxation.
- L-theanine. An amino acid found in green tea, often used in supplement form, can promote calm without drowsiness.
- Herbal supplements. Valerian root, passionflower, and ashwagandha are commonly used to reduce stress and support sleep.
As with any supplement, it’s best to consult with a qualified practitioner before starting, especially if you take medications or have a health condition.
Sleep as a Pillar of Health
It’s easy to see sleep as negotiable, something we can sacrifice to squeeze more hours out of the day. But sleep is not a luxury. It’s one of the pillars of health, right alongside nutrition and movement. Without it, the body can’t repair, recharge, or regulate itself.
By working with your circadian rhythms, practicing good sleep hygiene, and creating a soothing nighttime routine, you can set yourself up for the kind of sleep that leaves you feeling refreshed, energized, and resilient.
